Nips Up and Real Talk

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Welcome to the she Said podcast with Amy and Lisa. [00:00:03] Speaker B: And it's wet and rainy hail that I somehow didn't see. But that's because I had dryer balls in my dryer. I guarantee you that's why I didn't hear it. Yeah, I was. And they were thumping away because I just got them scented. [00:00:15] Speaker A: Did you go over there this weekend? [00:00:17] Speaker B: Yeah, I've already gone. Oh. I actually stopped by on Friday, and we're talking about magnolia because they had to buy one, get one half off. And so what I did. Because I never just want to commit to a scent because I go all in, you know, triple scent, whatever. Now, I did go back and sent my balls. There's no other way to say it. It just. [00:00:39] Speaker A: What? [00:00:40] Speaker B: I got Mulan. Okay. Dryer balls. And then. But I. So I went ahead and got another large laundry because it was just really too good of a deal to pass up to buy one, get one half off, and then I just got it unscented so I can bring it back later and then I'll send it. [00:00:56] Speaker A: Oh, that's a good. I didn't know you could do that. [00:00:57] Speaker B: Well, I've done the same thing. Like when I bought the. The room cleaner. The room sprays to clean counters. I got one scented one. I'm not. So you can. So, yeah, anytime. You just get it unscented and bring it back. And then, of course, you'll have to pay your extra scent fee when you. But you still get them triple. But you still get the discount. [00:01:14] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:01:14] Speaker B: Yeah. Because they don't discount the cents. [00:01:17] Speaker A: Right. [00:01:18] Speaker B: When you triple sin or whatever. That's not ever that goes on sale. [00:01:21] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:01:22] Speaker B: So. Yes. [00:01:23] Speaker A: I didn't make it over there. Kind of bummed. [00:01:26] Speaker B: Yeah. You missed out. I know. [00:01:28] Speaker A: And I really intended to go Sunday, and then Sunday just fell apart and I never made it over there. It's really sad. I want to see the new place, and I want to. I want. Did you try the perfume? [00:01:39] Speaker B: It wasn't there yet. Oh, yeah. Or it wasn't. I didn't see it. And I remember I said something about it, but there wasn't any. I didn't notice it. It was on Friday. [00:01:47] Speaker A: It's supposed to be. It was supposed to be there Friday, they said. But you can also pick your scent of that, too. Oh, well, I missed that. [00:01:54] Speaker B: No, but this time, I. I'm. I've never done this one before. I always do Bitty Bum Bum. I always land on that. And I like mixing it with magnolia or whatever. Well, this time I mixed it with 24 karat, which I had never tried before. It was actually really good mix. [00:02:07] Speaker A: I hate it though, when I go over there because as soon as I walk in, I am literally nose blind and I cannot smell. They always go, oh, Lisa, you have to try this new one. And they'll have me smell it. I'm like, I don't smell it until you leave. And then it's like if you like [00:02:21] Speaker B: girls at Cherry Street. [00:02:21] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. [00:02:22] Speaker B: So sweet. [00:02:23] Speaker A: The manager, I really like her. We've done a lot of the Bath Bomb. I've done several of those. Or you do the Bath Bomb class. [00:02:29] Speaker B: I never do that. [00:02:30] Speaker A: Or the soaps. It's so much fun. I've got a. You know, I think they can do 10 to 12 people. And I don't know about the new store, but I always get like 10 to 12 girls. And it's really fun to do. [00:02:40] Speaker B: We're gonna take a just a bath. [00:02:42] Speaker A: Well, me either. But shower. They do the shower steamers as well. We've made those before. [00:02:47] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:02:48] Speaker A: The last one I did in there was shower steamers. [00:02:50] Speaker B: That probably lingers in your house too. For a while too. [00:02:53] Speaker A: It does. Your bathroom will smell like that forever. Okay. And then you can actually put it in your toilet tank and it'll. When you flush it. [00:03:00] Speaker B: No way. [00:03:01] Speaker A: Doesn't last very long. But like how long? Two flushes. [00:03:05] Speaker B: Oh, are you serious? [00:03:06] Speaker A: Yeah, because it's sitting there. But like, you know when we did the class, you walk away with six of them. I think it was six to eight. And they get crumbly in the bag. And so you could just dump the crumbles. At least if you had guest or something. If you were doing. [00:03:19] Speaker B: Yeah. If you had company coming. [00:03:21] Speaker A: Be a thing to do. Yeah. [00:03:22] Speaker B: See, I just yawned. [00:03:24] Speaker A: I know. It is a lazy day. [00:03:25] Speaker B: It is a lazy day. [00:03:27] Speaker A: The weekend, everything. I'm a little bit over storms. [00:03:30] Speaker B: Well, I know. And that's what like I remember last year we being even being at the lake as much as we were. I don't think I put a swimsuit on until like June is like to where you could consistently wear a swimsuit. Know that it was warm and then here we're going to have another cool summer or spring. I don't. That that doesn't work for me. I need sun. [00:03:52] Speaker A: Not your plan. [00:03:53] Speaker B: That is not my plan. [00:03:56] Speaker A: So yeah, it's been a little bit rainy and not so great. But then yesterday the temp. My car said 100 degrees in my car yesterday when I was driving home. So it definitely Got warm yesterday. And then now for the next, what, 10 days, we're cool. [00:04:07] Speaker B: I used to always. And I still do make a bad habit of it. I like to run the AC in the car, and then I like to have my windows down, too. [00:04:14] Speaker A: Oh. [00:04:15] Speaker B: Because I really do like to be outside a lot. Like, I really like that fresh air of summer or spring, but I like a little bit of that cool air, too. But I remember I'd get in trouble when I was a kid because my mom would be like, why are you riding? You're wasting gas. You're wasting gas running that ac. [00:04:30] Speaker A: But it does. There is something about sitting outside in the sun. I could do that all day long. [00:04:36] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:04:36] Speaker A: I love it. It's. Without a doubt, it is the best. Well, I had my first dinner of my. Chapter two. [00:04:44] Speaker B: Yes. [00:04:44] Speaker A: Of my seat at the table last night, which was. [00:04:47] Speaker B: Same menu. [00:04:48] Speaker A: No, I switched it up. [00:04:49] Speaker B: Oh, did you? Okay. [00:04:51] Speaker A: Yep, I did. [00:04:51] Speaker B: I. [00:04:52] Speaker A: And I'm still trying. [00:04:53] Speaker B: Surprise. [00:04:54] Speaker A: No. [00:04:54] Speaker B: Okay. [00:04:55] Speaker A: It may be different at the next one because I'm. I'm still trying to figure out what I want to do. But I did go to Trader Joe's, which I'm not in the habit of going there. I wish I was, but I just. That's not one I think about. But I did go, and they had. I went last week. Last Friday, as I was checking out the girls at the counter, the three girls that worked there were all chatting amongst each other about a couple of the desserts that they have. And one was like. Because my theme this time, which will probably be next time, too, is, like, lemons and sunflowers and. Or not flowers, but gerber daisies. And so I was. Everything was lemonade last night, whether you [00:05:35] Speaker B: liked it this weekend. [00:05:36] Speaker A: And it was so good. Really. Well, I found these really cool lemon cookies that were really good, and then these little floral chocolate and, like, a mousse with a cake attached to it that look like little daisies. They were so cute. Iced. Really cute. White and yellow. [00:05:51] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:05:52] Speaker A: So I had that on the table. But I did. They had a. Anyway, they were talking about a lemon cake, and then she said, well, if you haven't tried the one with coconut icing, which I love coconut. So I went back a few days later and I thought, okay, I'm gonna get that. Well, they didn't have either one of those, so I don't know if they were even talking about the store. They get that Coke, a large. [00:06:09] Speaker B: Just go get the whole coconut cream pie from. [00:06:11] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, what's it called? [00:06:13] Speaker B: From Jimmy's Chop House. [00:06:15] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:06:16] Speaker B: There you go. You'll get your coconut. [00:06:17] Speaker A: Well, yeah. So I found this vanilla bean cake with Chantilly, Chantilly lace, Chantilly something icing. And it was a huge hit. It was really good. Just light, not very rich and heavy, but just really, really good. So that's what I did last night. I don't know what I'll do next time, but it was fun. [00:06:39] Speaker B: And it's. [00:06:40] Speaker A: You know, I talk about all the time that I pick out three people that don't necessarily know each other. And every time someone knows each other, like, there's always a connection somewhere. [00:06:49] Speaker B: Your place or the last time we did it. [00:06:51] Speaker A: Yeah. And then, like, last month or two times ago, two girls came that I knew. There's no way they knew each other. Three girls, but I knew two of them. And they walk in, and they had just met each other. The grief recovery because they both lost their husbands. [00:07:06] Speaker B: Oh, my goodness. [00:07:07] Speaker A: Two nights before they walk in, they're like, oh, my gosh, what are you doing here? I'm like, wow, to be kidding me. [00:07:12] Speaker B: Every time. [00:07:13] Speaker A: I mean, Tulsa's small enough, I guess, but. So last night, one girl canceled. She wasn't feeling well, and so I couldn't get somebody to fill in fast enough. It's too late in the evening, and the two girls walk in and they scream when they see each other. They're like good friends that didn't know either one was coming. And they hadn't actually been seen each other for the last year. You know, they've. They've worked together years ago and have stayed friends, but not friends that you hang out with all the time, obviously. So they got to catch up with each other was real, which was really fun. You know what that. [00:07:43] Speaker B: What is it? Seven degrees of. [00:07:45] Speaker A: Oh, Kevin Bacon. [00:07:46] Speaker B: There was a donkey walking on Brookside this last week. It was a cowboy and a donkey. And, like, he literally had the donkey on a lead, and they were walking down Brookside, and I was like, I wanted to get a picture of it, but it wasn't quick enough. Well, then two, three days later, this donkey's walking in front of my house on a lead by himself with this cowboy just walking him like a dog. And I was like, I don't want to bother him because he's walking with a girl. And so later, on their way back, I was like, yeah, I'm sorry. I have to come see your dog info. Well, talk about. I didn't expect the donkey to know my sister. And the cowboy, like, I'm like, Of all things. So she buys her hay from this kid from wherever. He's not even from Brookside, I guess he's talking to this girl in the area. [00:08:35] Speaker A: And that's. [00:08:35] Speaker B: They were just taking the donkey for a walk, like a casual stock walk and. But it was so cute to see it. [00:08:43] Speaker A: Oh, I bet it was. [00:08:43] Speaker B: It was really neat. I need to put the post the picture on our page. [00:08:47] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:08:47] Speaker B: Because that was really cute to see that. [00:08:49] Speaker A: It just makes me laugh that you said that the donkey knows your sister. [00:08:52] Speaker B: I was like, yeah, the donkey knows my sister and all. I'm like, the like, yeah. It was like a small. Like talking about who expects to see an animal walking the street? And it's. [00:09:00] Speaker A: And then he tells you that he knows your sister. Yeah. [00:09:03] Speaker B: Yeah. So they all know. Yeah. I was like, wow, that's a very small world. [00:09:06] Speaker A: It is small. But that's so funny that you don't see that every day in Tulsa. See horses sometimes on. In weird places. [00:09:14] Speaker B: Yeah. And I love it when I Sisters always did that. Like, it shocked me because Betsy was the one who was really into the horses. And, you know, I got one as a Christmas present one year and it was on Christmas morning and there was a horse in our backyard. In her backyard. A pony. It was a Shetland pony. Meanest. It bloodied my nose the first five minutes. I had a bloody nose from it. So I sold it, like we had it for a year or two, whatever. And I sold it for my first 10 speed. I was like, you're out of here, you're gone. And I want a bike. So. But my sisters used to go on these, like, days, long trail rides. And my sister. And they were young, Like, I can't. But when I say Betsy was a professional writer, like, she was just that she was doing and Lynn apparently was. I didn't realize how much she actually did it too. They're going this overnight trail camp outs. I'm like, my parents let that happen. I don't think you would have stopped Betsy. Like, if it's animal related, like she's going to. Yeah, you're. She's gone. So she at least got to bring Lynn with her. But Lynn was telling me one day about how fun that was. I'm like, I can't even imagine. [00:10:19] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:10:20] Speaker B: My parents being okay. But then again, my mom didn't kill me for getting in the truck with the ice cream guy. So good guy. [00:10:26] Speaker A: So such a different time back then. Oh, my gosh. Well, I did. We've talked about it before, but I think Donkeys are so funny. I love to watch the videos of donkeys. They're so. They've got such personalities. [00:10:38] Speaker B: Oh, I love them. I love goats, too. But those donkeys, man, I love. They are fun. [00:10:42] Speaker A: But there is something really cute about a baby goat. [00:10:45] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, she's got tons of them. She has them all the time. [00:10:47] Speaker A: Oh, wow. [00:10:48] Speaker B: Minis, miniatures. [00:10:49] Speaker A: Teeny tiny ones. [00:10:51] Speaker B: They're adorable. [00:10:53] Speaker A: It's just funny how they all have personalities. You know what? I'm kind of kicking myself that I didn't do. And every time I see the previews of it, I'm even madder. Did you come years ago to the movie when I rented out a theater and we did Sex in the City when the first Sex and the City movie came out? No, it was so much fun. We were talking about it last night because these two, the girls that were there last night had actually attended that. But I rented out the IMAX theater in South Tulsa. Was it the IMAX, one of those theaters out there, like on 169 and 71st. And I bet we had 200 women in there. And we rented out just us. And I sold tickets. And then we donated the money to, I think, the TU Women's Group or something. There was something about women, and I don't know what it was now. I don't remember. It's been too many years ago. But anyway, you could buy a ticket. And then we donated. We paid. We had like Cosmos and stuff because of Sex in the City. And I think a restaurant or a hotel donated some snacks and stuff. And they set up a table at the very bottom of the theater. Down by the screen. Yeah, we had food set up and people. The girls, like all the anchors from the TV stations came, and it was just a. It was over 200 women in there, and we just all. Everybody dressed to the nines, you know, because it was about Sex in the City. I'm kicking myself. I didn' do that for the Devil Wears Prada, too. [00:12:12] Speaker B: Yeah, I. I do want to see that. [00:12:13] Speaker A: Like, why didn't I rent a theater and get do that? [00:12:16] Speaker B: I watched Don't Tell mom the Babysitter's Dead last night with Christina Applegate. Remember? It was a movie from like 91. [00:12:24] Speaker A: I don't remember that. [00:12:25] Speaker B: And it was just. But I hadn't seen it. I'm in so long. But to think it was in 1991, I think. But man, it made me so sad, though, to think about her condition now. She has Ms. [00:12:35] Speaker A: So bad. Yeah. [00:12:36] Speaker B: And so to see her at that age and think, man, she had no idea, no idea what was coming after her. [00:12:43] Speaker A: It's really scary part when you're living life, like everything's great. And then because her diagnosis, she's pretty severe. [00:12:49] Speaker B: It's pretty severe. Yeah. [00:12:50] Speaker A: Yeah. I hate that for her. Well, I missed an opportunity because that sure was fun. And these girls last. We were trying to. One girl I hadn't seen, I thought, since 2009, that was there last night. And then when we figured that out, she goes, no, I came to your. I did a movie. There was a big movie with a bunch of girls. I'm like, oh, my gosh. Yeah, it was fun. But I met so many girls that night that. That I'm still connected with, you know, because then they came. If you got. If you came that night, I got your info. And then you got invited to all my girls nights out that I've done for years. And it was so much fun. But I kind of wish I would have done it for the. Because there hasn't been a good movie in a long time where it would be great for that. You know, girls would want to see, you know, like to get together like that. That's a real good girl movie. And that was good chick flick right there. And that one really is. And I think people could have dressed up because the premiere, the New York premiere, the way the everybody was dressed, I'm like, oh, man, why didn't I do that? Kind of bummed, but snooze, you lose next time. I know. Gotta get on my game. [00:13:51] Speaker B: Have you ever been to 918 maples for Mexican food? [00:13:56] Speaker A: No. Is that a restaurant? [00:13:57] Speaker B: Yes, and it is. I didn't even know. My husband likes to eat there a lot. And so I met him for dinner one night and it's a Mexican food and it's very popular. I didn't even know it was like a thing, but then suddenly I have seen some other influencers talking about it and I didn't even know it was. But. But their chip basket is really cool because they give the chips. But then there's like these little pinwheel, maybe pork rinds, but I don't think they're pork rinds. It's something different, like a puffed up corn thing, but it's the same kind of consistency and they look like little pinwheels and they're made to put in the salsa too, but it's just a different twist on that. But the food is excellent. Like I have. I've eaten there now multiple times, and it's Very good. But it's called 918 Maples, and it's just a cute little. Where is it? It couldn't even. It's like, on Sheridan. That's what I was looking at, the address. Yeah. It's not a Midtown or a Brookside or a Cherry street thing, but you're still. [00:14:50] Speaker A: It's. [00:14:50] Speaker B: I've been there multiple times. I've never seen any issues or anything. [00:14:55] Speaker A: Just. [00:14:55] Speaker B: It's a fun little hole in the wall to go to for Mexican food if somebody wants something different and it's not new. Nope. And they don't have chicken tenders. Well, they might, but I did not order chicken tenders. [00:15:04] Speaker A: Wow. [00:15:05] Speaker B: Yeah. So anyways, that was good. I just thought about that restaurant and [00:15:10] Speaker A: I was like, I saw your husband posting that. He was in the helicopter. [00:15:15] Speaker B: Yes. [00:15:16] Speaker A: Does he get to do that every once in a while? [00:15:18] Speaker B: He. It has something to do with. I. I don't really know how. What. The situation. He's gone before, but a long time ago, and he went with another guy that I want to say it might be like, retired police from forever ago. There's something. But he had asked Stephen to go, and that's how they went. [00:15:38] Speaker A: That's cool. [00:15:39] Speaker B: Yeah. It was a great shot, wasn't it? Yeah. So we saw him fly over the house, and it was like. He said, those cameras are something else. [00:15:47] Speaker A: Wow. [00:15:48] Speaker B: I mean, if you think you. You can run, but you can't hide. [00:15:53] Speaker A: I watched that. I watched that live pd. I think it's so fun to watch. And boy, those. When they get the helicopter. You're not getting away. That's crazy. [00:16:02] Speaker B: No, we. He did just. We just lost a very, very good friend of ours yesterday. And it really makes me so sad because we love Jeff and Anyways, I just want to mention his name because he was such a good guy. Very. Just awesome. That's all I can say. So good to my kids. He was a retired officer and anyways, he'll be miss. It was for sure one of my husband's closest friends. [00:16:26] Speaker A: Oh, I hate to hear that. [00:16:28] Speaker B: So he was quite the trooper, though. [00:16:30] Speaker A: Well, speaking of grief. I'm speaking this Saturday on Grief. [00:16:35] Speaker B: Well. [00:16:35] Speaker A: And it happens to be my mom's birthday. [00:16:38] Speaker B: Wow. So talk about timing. [00:16:40] Speaker A: Yeah. Coincidence. In fact, I would. After I said yes, it was probably later that day or the next day, I was like, oh. Oh, my gosh. That's gonna be. [00:16:48] Speaker B: What's it for? What? [00:16:49] Speaker A: It's a girl. Actually, the girl was there last night at my house, but she has done it Once before for women or. I don't know that it was just women, but people that had lost somebody. And she had like 60 people, which kind of made me panic last night. I'm like, oh, but this one is. It's not necessarily for Mother's Day, but it's, it's not a Mother's Day. She's calling it a T, but it's for women that have lost whether a child or a mother. And so she has me and one other lady speaking about. She. The other lady lost her mother to Alzheimer's and then to my mom. And she really wants me to talk more about how losing my mom is kind of the reason I started a seat at the table and how much that's helped, you know, so many women. I mean, I think about last night. All three of us cried our eyes out last night. At different intervals throughout the night, just talking about. I talked about my mom and that seems to be a really hot topic every time at the dinner. And anyway, so it's just a little tea that she's having. It's at a church and so I don't know how many people will be there, but I'm really talking about grief and in grief and grief and the seat of the table and how that all got started. [00:18:02] Speaker B: Yeah, but you know, and think, speaking of like Alzheimer's, there is a viral video and you, you had to have seen it. That is about the. It's a. I, I apologize. I think maybe he's Vietnamese or something. He's an older man. He was at a Chick fil a with his wife. Um, have. Is this leading. Oh my goodness. Okay, so. And I guess there was a little girl in the restaurant that was coughing. There is no video of her coughing. So nobody knows as to what scale or whatever it is. And you know, and that's, you know, that happens. People are going to cough in the restaurant. I get that. I'm not even. There is only one thing that I'm standing firm on. And so this mom who also has to tell her 3 year old, get your shoes on before we leave. Keep in mind, they're in a restaurant. She's got her shoes off, which really just kind of grosses me out. But this old man and I feel like if, you know, mannerisms of people that have suffered with their mind declining some, like you're just gonna recognize it. The panic, the. Well, his wife was at the table and he gets up and he's like, listen, you make. You leave. Like she's coughing, she's coughing and My wife is sick. Now, I. I'm not saying one person has more of a right to be there. That isn't what my argument is. My argument is that so many people have so easily attacked this. This old man, okay? Like, he's easily going to be in his 80s or 90s. His wife is sitting there at the table with that. With that stare that you kind of just recognize. And I don't know what she's sick of. Nobody does. Like, she could just have be for him. He might not be able to describe in our language what that sick is, but he's like, tell her cover her mouth. Like, put a mask on her, you know. You know, whatever. And the lady's like, well, I had her cover her mouth when she was coughing. But she. This. This whole time she's po out of phone, is recording him, and it's just getting more and more aggressive. I just thought, man, you so easily could have calmed that situation and just been more compassionate as to, first of all, recognize this elderly man, okay? We don't know what his fear is or why he's so scared. And this could be their one outing that they got because they were. There's like, nobody in the restaurant either was a chick fil a and it was deader than a Dora now. So maybe that's why they chose to go at that time, so his wife could have an outing. Maybe she's on the way back from chemo. I mean, you just don't know. [00:20:19] Speaker A: Don't know. Right. [00:20:21] Speaker B: But, man, I will just, like, did he have a right to tell her, put a mask on? No, that isn't my argument. But my argument is, man, try to understand. People take a step back of wanting to fight and video and create more animosity. And she called the police on him for telling him and he was not yelling. I don't care what. There are people who translate what yelling is. Then I'm a yeller all the time, I guess. [00:20:45] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:20:46] Speaker B: If that's what. But it just really. It really ate me up. It bothered me that there was such a lack of compassion for somebody who's so much. Who's. Who's older. Yeah, it was awful what people said. [00:20:59] Speaker A: It is. It's crazy. I think the two thing that people cannot just have a conversation like, no, it should have been so easy for her. Just. I mean, obviously, it doesn't take a genius to know that if your daughter's coughing, it's spreading germs. We all know that. [00:21:12] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:21:13] Speaker A: And so to just be compassionate about that and then Two, that everybody gets their cameras out. [00:21:18] Speaker B: Everybody. I mean, she had it right in his face, you know, and he was like, well, I didn't see her cover it up, but, you know, she's sick. She let me talk about his wife. It was just very. I don't know, it was in poor taste to me to treat another human being like that, especially somebody older. Clearly, they haven't been through that with anybody they love yet. [00:21:38] Speaker A: So. Yeah. Which that changes everything, huh? When you think about how you might [00:21:44] Speaker B: even be working in nursing homes, was even more concerning to me. The way they were talking and the slanders that they were saying to these people about this man, just about his nationality and all that. I was just like, you guys are so stupid. [00:21:58] Speaker A: Missing the whole point. [00:21:59] Speaker B: Missing the whole point. [00:22:00] Speaker A: I can't even. I can't even read comments now when. When something gets posted because the ignorance behind them is just the saddest thing to me. That's where we are society, right? [00:22:12] Speaker B: The things that they say, it just blows my mind. And honestly, I feel like it was the mom that was getting. At the end, you hear the little girl cry, say, mom, I need to go home. And in my opinion, if you hear it, it's not an allergy. Like, she sounds kind of like that whiny little cranky. She wanted to go home. Well, they said it's because the man traumatized her. My people are so confused on what trauma is anymore. It's such an overused word. [00:22:36] Speaker A: It. [00:22:37] Speaker B: In my opinion, if I would have seen my mom getting heated with somebody, that would have been more, quote, traumatizing to me. But I know my mom would have taught me compassion. [00:22:45] Speaker A: And your mom wouldn't have done that? [00:22:47] Speaker B: No. [00:22:47] Speaker A: Wouldn't have been there in that position. [00:22:49] Speaker B: Absolutely not. [00:22:50] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:22:50] Speaker B: So. [00:22:51] Speaker A: Well, I think the whole camera thing, to me is driving me crazy with there's a wreck on the side of the road or there's any kind of catastrophe, and everybody's got their camera out because they're trying to figure out to go viral with these. Just like at the dinner the other night with the president that literally, the guy has just been taken down. All the Secret Service have guns drawn, and there are people standing there videoing it. [00:23:12] Speaker B: Videoing. [00:23:13] Speaker A: They're crazy trying to get the video of it. It's like. I mean, I would be under the table, but I even. There is even video in the. In the ballroom of people that are underneath the table. The room is still locked down. The Secret Service is still yelling, stay down. And they've got their Phone up. [00:23:30] Speaker B: You're crazy. [00:23:30] Speaker A: Videoing it. It's like, I just don't. I'm not that person that immediately grabs my phone and starts videoing. I don't understand that concept. It's like everybody's looking for the next viral video. [00:23:41] Speaker B: Yeah. And I probably have a whole lot of viral videos on my phone, but I never attempted to share it. [00:23:46] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:23:47] Speaker B: Because I'm a. I need proof kind of person. But that's okay. [00:23:51] Speaker A: But you're not doing it to share. [00:23:52] Speaker B: Oh, gosh, no. [00:23:54] Speaker A: But they're doing it, so I hope a news station picks up on it or it goes viral. And it's like, but your. Your life is at j. In danger right now. You're supposed to be under the table. [00:24:02] Speaker B: I think people are very confused as to just how dangerous. They don't even understand the danger that lurks around them. And I mean, married to a cop, obviously, I hear so much more than what people can even. They can't even wrap around when they. When I tell you that demons walk among us, I am not exaggerating. Like, people do not understand how it is in their backyard. They have no idea. [00:24:28] Speaker A: So, yeah, I'm that person. If I go anywhere, like, big crowds or I'm not paying attention to, like, the concert because I'm looking around me to try to figure out, that guy looks a little. Okay. I don't. Like, always. [00:24:40] Speaker B: Speaking of, like, what. Like Jimmy Kimmel. Okay. Like what he said. You know, there's. There's just always been these, like, death comments and stuff about what kind of person are you if you're wishing death on anybody? Like, I remember when Biden fell off his bike and I felt sorry for the guy, and I'm not even a fan of his. [00:24:58] Speaker A: Right. [00:24:59] Speaker B: I just don't understand either. I'm beginning to think that compassion is a real gift. [00:25:04] Speaker A: But you don't ever. No matter. No matter what your feelings are or where you sit, you don't wish somebody to be murdered. [00:25:11] Speaker B: You just. If you're any kind of human being, [00:25:15] Speaker A: had a conversation with a lady that. When he was running the first time. Was it the first time? I don't remember if that'd be the first time. When he was. And there was some, you know, assassination attempt or something, they said, I wish it would have happened. He's a father, He's a grandfather. He's a human. Regardless of it. Doesn't matter what he thinks politically, you don't get to die because they don't agree with you. I just. I don't understand that concept that it's okay to talk about being murdered and, you know, if it's anybody else, if you're. That's a threat to the presidency. Right. I just don't understand. I don't get it. I don't understand where we are mentally in the world today. [00:25:54] Speaker B: No, it's very sad. [00:25:56] Speaker A: It's really disheartening that that's where we are and that people think that's okay. Yep. It's just in bad taste. [00:26:04] Speaker B: And again, who even jokes about someone being a widow? I don't care on what level. Like, you think that we're all supposed to think. Like, who even says something like that? I don't. I don't understand. [00:26:17] Speaker A: And. And it's in the. The. The theme of comedy. Well, it's not funny. And I thought comedians were supposed to be funny. That's not funny. There's nothing funny about it. [00:26:26] Speaker B: No, and I mean. And I agree. It's like, I think everybody. I think all parties have crossed the line in many. I don't think anybody is perfect at all. And I think there's a lot of problems that. With words out there. [00:26:40] Speaker A: So the whole thing is everywhere is a disaster. [00:26:43] Speaker B: But I will say this. I have plenty of people that I'm friends with that our political views do not align. But I still have similar things with. I mean, we all breathe the same air and, like, just find a way to find something in common. [00:26:58] Speaker A: Well, yeah. And I have a lot of people in my life that I disagree with their lifestyle, but I. I might not go hang out with them, but I. I'm still friends with them. I'm still civil to them. [00:27:08] Speaker B: I'm not gonna. You get along. [00:27:09] Speaker A: Yeah. I'm not gonna disassociate myself because I don't agree that with what they do in the evenings or whatever that is. So it's like, I don't understand why we've become that nation that can't tolerate. We can't. It's just crazy to me, especially with everything going on and all the scariness. [00:27:26] Speaker B: We'll keep living by example. So. Okay, so I learned about something new this week, and I'm like, oh, that sounds kind of good. It's something. It's called Skin Viva, and Juvederm makes it. And you go on, look up the videos on Skin Viv. And it's not a filler, but it's a. It's like a moisturizing, like, plumper. Like, it creates moisture in your skin. Like, if you have fine lines that you really want to attack. They like. It, like, goes in there and it's. It's like a hyaluronic acid. And so it just really helps create moisture under the skin where some of us don't necessarily need volume, but we want to have it look fuller because it's full of moisture. So skin bee. I would look into it. Like, I just think it's really cool. [00:28:13] Speaker A: Is it a technique or it's a product? [00:28:15] Speaker B: No, it's a product. It's a Juvederm product. So you still get treated like a filler would. [00:28:20] Speaker A: Oh, gotcha. Anyways, medical clinic. [00:28:24] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, you gotta go to. Yeah, so but if you look up the video videos on it, it's. It's pretty cool. [00:28:29] Speaker A: Okay. [00:28:30] Speaker B: And by the way, I heard a new little thing they said, okay. Instead of saying, it was these two comedians, they said telling people, chin up is old news. Like, that's how it was in the old days. Now you're supposed to say, nips up. So you just puff your chest up, and that gives you a better posture. And so now someone's having a hard day, you just tell them, nips up. That's your new thing, a nips up? Yeah. [00:28:53] Speaker A: That's so funny. All right, well, we're out of time, okay. [00:28:57] Speaker B: Says the girls who said, what are we going to talk about today? [00:29:00] Speaker A: So we're overtime, actually. [00:29:02] Speaker B: Wow. All right, bye. [00:29:04] Speaker A: All right, see you next week.