Episode Transcript
[00:00:00] Speaker A: Welcome back to the she Said podcast with Amy and Lisa. And we're back.
[00:00:05] Speaker B: Yay.
[00:00:05] Speaker A: We took a little break. We did.
[00:00:07] Speaker B: We skipped a week. That was the first week we've missed. Out of 21.
[00:00:11] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:00:11] Speaker B: In a row. I don't know if I've ever done anything. Well, I did celebrate 21 years in real estate, so I did 21 straight.
[00:00:18] Speaker A: I didn't know it was that many years.
[00:00:19] Speaker B: I didn't either. There you go.
[00:00:21] Speaker A: 21 is a magic number, so.
[00:00:22] Speaker B: Magic number.
[00:00:23] Speaker A: We're counting this as season two.
[00:00:25] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:00:25] Speaker A: Yep. And episode 22.
[00:00:27] Speaker B: There we go.
[00:00:28] Speaker A: If you're a Taylor Swift fan, that would all make sense to somebody with her new.
[00:00:32] Speaker B: No idea what that means.
[00:00:33] Speaker A: Okay, let's just talk about that real quick.
[00:00:35] Speaker B: Yeah. Because I'm Taylor Swift at all.
[00:00:37] Speaker A: I'm not either.
[00:00:38] Speaker B: I know nothing.
[00:00:39] Speaker A: But she's a marketing genius. I mean, we can all say that.
[00:00:41] Speaker B: I'll say that.
[00:00:42] Speaker A: So I'm fascinated more with her marketing, whatever it is.
[00:00:46] Speaker B: Girl smart. Yeah.
[00:00:47] Speaker A: So she does the podcast.
[00:00:48] Speaker B: Did not know that she did.
[00:00:50] Speaker A: She went on her boyfriend, Travis Kelce the football player's podcast.
[00:00:53] Speaker B: Seen some advertising.
[00:00:53] Speaker A: I was gonna say, how have you. You've been.
[00:00:55] Speaker B: I know that they were. That the whole thing. I thought that was like a one time.
[00:00:59] Speaker A: It was a one time, but she did it to announce her new album. So, yes, from a podcaster standpoint, for you and I, the fact that she's chosen one podcast to go on. She went on a podcast. Think about that. In. In the age we're in.
[00:01:12] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:01:12] Speaker A: Instead of TV talk shows, radio promotions, she did a podcast. Her boyfriend's, of course, but a podcast. So watching it live, I have the stats because I'm kind of. I'm blown away by the marketing side of it. Okay. So live viewers that night, watching it live, 1. 3 million people watched it live. In 16 hours. There were 10 million people watched it after it had aired the first 24 hours. There were 13 million people that watched it over a few days. 18.5 million people watched it. New listeners that signed up on Spotify to listen went up 3,000%. They haven't posted.
[00:01:53] Speaker B: My Word.
[00:01:53] Speaker A: Haven't posted official numbers of listens, but I had seen a number at one point, over a billion.
[00:01:58] Speaker B: Are those pay to listeners or are these just people that just had to sign up with an email?
[00:02:01] Speaker A: I don't know how Spotify works, if you pay to be on Spotify or not. I thought you did, but I don't know average streams on Spotify during that was 2500% increase. 2500% increase. Female Spotify listeners went up 618.
Mid episode 1100 surge after a glitch. So 1100% of a YouTube went down within 15 minutes of it ending. I don't think a whole YouTube went down, but their podcast went down. So people jumped. 1100% increase. Jumped over to Spotify to finish listening to the last 15 minutes that I'm fascinated by the fact that listeners went up 300.
[00:02:40] Speaker B: I wonder where the age range was. Like they had to pick up an entire new age range also. Like, are the new listeners like 12?
[00:02:48] Speaker A: Oh, probably.
[00:02:49] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:02:49] Speaker A: It's going to be a younger audience.
[00:02:50] Speaker B: Yeah. Picked up a whole new younger audience of podcast listeners, I guarantee you.
[00:02:55] Speaker A: But I think from the podcasting world, that's a, that's a huge step. I think it shows that obviously she doesn't need to do talk shows, she doesn't do radio promotion. But the fact that she went on a podcast to announce it.
[00:03:07] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:03:08] Speaker A: At podcasts. It just shows where we are in the podcasting world is so popular and it's just growing. It's not.
[00:03:14] Speaker B: That's amazing.
[00:03:15] Speaker A: It's not going away. I think some of it's because you can speak your mind, you can say whatever you want. There's no right.
There's nothing going to block you.
[00:03:22] Speaker B: There's no yet.
[00:03:25] Speaker A: I'm sure. Yeah, that could be coming at some point, but right now it's wide open.
[00:03:29] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:03:29] Speaker A: So I just was fascinated by that. I love numbers and I love marketing and she's. I mean, nobody has it figured out.
[00:03:35] Speaker B: She's a genius at that. Without a doubt.
[00:03:37] Speaker A: Really good at it.
[00:03:37] Speaker B: Pretty. Because. How old is she?
[00:03:39] Speaker A: 32, I think.
[00:03:40] Speaker B: Yeah. Didn't see. I didn't even know that.
[00:03:42] Speaker A: Yeah. She's a multi billionaire at 32. Geez. Yeah.
[00:03:46] Speaker B: So I'll say a beauty tip. A beauty tip I learned this week is that a lady was demonstrating. You always see these brush cleaners for your makeup brushes. Now some people will beg to differ. And this lady argued, she was like, hey, I've had these same makeup brushes for five years. This is how I've been cleaning them. Here they are. They're not broken. They're not. Now if you had. She said you take 91% rubbing alcohol. She puts the rubbing alcohol on her makeup brushes and she just swirls them over and over on a towel. And those suckers came out spotless and they dried instantly. Just like that makeup brush cleaner that you can get that also claims that there's no. Rinse and drying.
Her makeup brushes were beautiful. So I can't wait to try it. And she's like, it's cheap. It works. Cleans them.
Disinfects them.
[00:04:34] Speaker A: I was going to say disinfects them too.
[00:04:36] Speaker B: So I cannot wait to try that.
[00:04:38] Speaker A: Because I do say some. One of the dirtiest things that we handle every day is our makeup brushes.
[00:04:43] Speaker B: Yeah. So I can't wait to try it. I mean, I saw it, it worked. And she was like, my makeup brushes are fine. They've not broken. And probably after five years, it wouldn't hurt to replace any.
[00:04:52] Speaker A: I mean, at some point. So they're going to get. The bristles are going to start coming out.
[00:04:56] Speaker B: So I don't know, do you have a tip or anything that you've come across? Not from no makeup standpoint. Is there a product that you've used?
Okay, what's that?
[00:05:05] Speaker A: I would say, and I don't know the brand, I might think of it while we're talking, but I use a highlighter on my cheekbones and I have for years and I can't imagine not ever.
[00:05:17] Speaker B: Right.
[00:05:18] Speaker A: And it just kind of. I think it brings out your eyes. I think it highlights. Make sure if you don't have cheekbones, it kind of brings them out.
[00:05:25] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:05:26] Speaker A: And I've always had high cheekbones, so I've always. I've done that for probably 10 size them.
[00:05:30] Speaker B: Well, there was a pro, you know. You know those makeup boxes you could get, you would do a subscription like, I don't know, 12 or 15amonth.
[00:05:38] Speaker A: Oh, yeah.
[00:05:38] Speaker B: Years ago. I mean, it could have been eight years ago. There was a product called Yensa Y E N S a day. And it was a tone up primer essential glow. And it was like eight block. It was a really slight pink tint. And I like the other day I was putting it on and I realized I was like, oh, my gosh. I have used this for probably eight years. Sometimes I've just used it as my foundation. Other times I mix a little bit of like a darker foundation with it. But that has been a staple in my makeup bag. I'll buy three tubes at a time.
Um, and I just have to buy it online. I've never been able to walk into a store and buy it, but that is something that I have never been without on my skin for years.
So I'm like, well, I actually have committed to a product in my life, but I had never.
It is funny.
[00:06:29] Speaker A: I mean, I have so many products I buy and use a few times and don't like it. But it is nice to have one. That one staple that you always. It's always there.
[00:06:39] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. So that I will say. I have actually done that. And I will say this hourglass mascara that I talked about, that tubing, that's. That's going to be a forever commitment mascara of mine for sure.
[00:06:50] Speaker A: I'd never heard of tubing mascara till you talked about it. And now I hear about tubing mascara every time I turn around.
[00:06:55] Speaker B: It's just funny how of all the tubing ones I've tried, this one is definitely the best.
The best.
[00:07:01] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:07:02] Speaker B: And it comes in brown if you get your colors.
[00:07:04] Speaker A: Yeah. And you're supposed to wear.
[00:07:05] Speaker B: And you need rum. Yep. So there you go.
[00:07:07] Speaker A: And you got. You got a new neck pillow. And I've been. You know, I talked about one that I bought a few months ago called Coupe Cop.
[00:07:14] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:07:15] Speaker A: And it has totally changed my sleeping game.
But you said you bought a new one.
[00:07:20] Speaker B: Okay. So I'm going to show you a picture of mine because I took it for you this morning and tell me if this is what yours looks like. Does it look like that?
[00:07:27] Speaker A: No. But I have seen and heard about that one.
[00:07:29] Speaker B: Okay. So we need to remind me so we can just post it. Yeah, we'll post the picture.
But basically, it's a squarish rectangle. Everyone has seen it. I've just never bought it. I got it on a great sale on Amazon. And so I have a mobi C disc in my neck. They went in the front of my neck. It was from a neck injury. And so it's basically like a ball and joint in my C4 C5. So I have still a reasonable amount of neck pain.
We try to deal with it in different ways, but I don't sleep comfortably. I've not been able to sleep on my stomach in. Since 2016. Like, that is, like, not happening. Also because of my low back. But this pillow, last night, I had such a great night's sleep on it. Like, I slept on my side. It just kind of cra. Makes your neck kind of fall back. It gives your head a place to fall back.
So I was like, wow, I could probably match Lisa's 89% sleep score just because of this pillow. I actually slept really great.
[00:08:30] Speaker A: Well, you have a lot of things going in your favor. Not just.
[00:08:34] Speaker B: I do. And I'm telling you that bpc, we talked about it.
[00:08:37] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:08:37] Speaker B: I have put it in my shoulders. I have put it in my knee. And even Lisa noticed today my knee is like, the swelling down Is down. Yeah.
I have my kids now. On three occasions, they have seen me starting to run. I was running from the rain. I was. That was several times they've seen that.
They have caught me on my knees picking up something, Like I was crawling to get something. And they were like, whoa, mom, you never would have been able. You were on your knees right now. Like, that was nothing but a miracle. And I kind of stopped and I was like, holy cow, I am on my knees and I don't feel anything. Now. That's not to say like, Daisy, she bumped her butt into my knee. And that can kind of trigger it pretty quick. And then I'm like, dang it. Now I feel it again for the day. But it is my daily life of just general pain is.
Is improved. And I know it's because of that BPC157.
And I go to, you know, a pharmacist to, you know, to the medical Wellness clinic. Wellness clinic, yeah.
[00:09:43] Speaker A: So that's. I want to talk about that because we talk about them all the time. And we're obviously not experts, we're not doctors, but we do. I've done my research. I actually work for the Wellness Clinic. I do her market for. So I hear her talk about all the time. I do some research. So there's a difference between what you can get online and what you get from a pharmacy. The ones online are synthetic, which no one wants to put synthetic in their bodies. Now you're directing. You're injecting it directly into your stomach. And then there's the kind that are natural occurring, which is what we have in our body. So the BPC actually stands for. And there's. There's three long words, but it's a product that's already in our bodies, a natural occurring product. These are short chains of amino acids. So they're going to work with your body. Getting them online is dangerous because you don't. They are synthetic. You don't know what you're getting. Even though we talk about them all the time, we're actually getting them from a doctor's office who buys them from a compounding pharmacy.
[00:10:37] Speaker B: Yes.
[00:10:37] Speaker A: But they are working, man.
[00:10:39] Speaker B: It really is. And it is just kind of shocking to me. I mean, and I'm telling you, like, I've had a lot of problems over the years and lots of joint pains in different areas. And like I said, I've been able to put it on my shoulder, I've put it in my hip, my knee, my calf. Like, everything's just kind of connected And I just have nothing but good things to say about it.
[00:11:00] Speaker A: And I do get some. Some injection soreness just from anytime you get an injection.
[00:11:05] Speaker B: Yeah, the first week I felt some achy in my knee. I will say that like you had mentioned. And I kind of laid off doing it in my knee. And when I did that, I felt more relief because you're still getting the.
[00:11:14] Speaker A: Amount of product in your body. It's just not going directly. I still inject it directly into my knee. But I do feel some achiness sometimes. Not every time. Um, but I'm on several different peptides that work with different things. I think I have a lot of healing to do from chemo. But my sleep score.
[00:11:31] Speaker B: Yeah, I mean, we've all.
[00:11:32] Speaker A: You guys have all heard about my sleep. I have terrible sleep, but I was at an 89 sleep score last night. Unheard of.
[00:11:38] Speaker B: I was shocked.
[00:11:39] Speaker A: And I also looked at the. All the stats on the oura ring is what I wear. That tracks it. And it said your. Your sleep is trending upwards for the past eight weeks. Well, I've been on peptides for the last eight weeks, so I know that closely attributes to it. And these aren't peptides that help you sleep, but it's healing all the mitochondria, all the cellular level.
[00:11:59] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah.
[00:12:00] Speaker A: So it's really working. And I, you know, obviously how much better you feel when you get eight hours of sleep. I didn't get eight hours. I got six and a half. But no, I got seven. What was it? Seven hours of sleep, which when I'm averaging three and four normally. So my body's like, I'm a new person.
I feel it all over. Achiness and everything is changing. So if you do want to go talk to Karen at Conn Genetic Clinic, just mention that you heard about it on the she Said podcast and she will help you out.
[00:12:31] Speaker B: But I'm still getting my Botox.
I'm not giving that up yet.
That's okay. We're not there yet.
[00:12:39] Speaker A: Someday. Well, there is one, actually. That's like the topical Botox peptide.
[00:12:44] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:12:44] Speaker A: I don't know how much, how well it works. I don't. I haven't really looked into it. I'm like, yeah, I haven't really looked into it to know if it really works or not, but someday I might kick myself.
[00:12:55] Speaker B: Okay. So the most asked question I about our podcast and I do. I get asked this a lot. And I got asked this this weekend by some friends of ours. It was actually the husband who asked and he Was kind of asking because of his wife. And I was like, you know, I'm going to mention that this weekend on the podcast because we get asked this fairly frequently, I feel like. And they're like, how much do you guys, like, put a lot of prep work into this? Like, this has got to take you guys a long time. Do y' all prepare a script? Do you?
And I was like, no, we don't. Like, we.
There's nothing. Like, I walk in here sometimes like, oh, sorry, Lisa, I didn't have a shower. Like, what are we doing? Like, we're. We sit down because we laugh about the pre show because, like, a lot of times we talk about things like. Yeah, we're not talking about that.
But no, we come in here and it is a phone conversation. Like, hey, what'd you do today? How's it going? Oh, yeah, let's talk about that. Oh, hey, I like the glasses you're wearing, by the way. Or like, we wing it. This is a complete winged show.
[00:13:54] Speaker A: Well, for example, today, we haven't spoken in over a week.
[00:13:57] Speaker B: No, we didn't.
[00:13:58] Speaker A: Just our schedules have been crazy. And so we. She walked in today. I have not spoken to her since week before last. And because we missed last week. And so we. We both have topics of things that we've been dealing with or going through, and we just sit down and we've just.
[00:14:11] Speaker B: Yeah. And start recording and go to her and say, sometimes I'll text her and be like, hey, remind me. Remind me to talk about this. Like, I mean, like, the rubbing alcohol thing. I mean that. So that's not to say we won't say, hey, remind me this, or reminders like that. But no, we have no script.
[00:14:26] Speaker A: Script. I can't even imagine a script.
[00:14:28] Speaker B: This is pure chemistry banter and Lisa's knowledge of knowing how to do a podcast because she's a genius and has a business.
Has a business doing this. But, you know, you got to have somebody that knows what they're doing and has the equipment.
[00:14:46] Speaker A: We have to edit it.
[00:14:47] Speaker B: You can't.
[00:14:48] Speaker A: I mean, there's things that have to be edited out.
[00:14:50] Speaker B: Yeah.
All my cuss words. And I'm just kidding. I don't cuss on here.
[00:14:55] Speaker A: Coughing and.
[00:14:56] Speaker B: Right.
[00:14:56] Speaker A: You know, and stuff like that that we take. I take out, but really not a ton. And now we've gotten a lot better.
[00:15:03] Speaker B: At first it was funny because she was like, gosh, I didn't realize how much. What was the word? We always said, wow. Wow, that was so. But that doesn't she doesn't. We don't really say that anym.
[00:15:15] Speaker A: Not as much or not as.
[00:15:16] Speaker B: Now they're going to catch all of them.
[00:15:18] Speaker A: Yeah, I'm going to have to take them all out now. And then there's a lot of ums because anybody that's speaking you, that's kind of your fill in word when you're thinking. And so I do take a lot of the ums out, but I mean there's editing that goes into it, but not a lot. But now no scripting. Just sitting in here and catching up. Basically.
[00:15:35] Speaker B: It really is. You're eavesdropping on a phone conversation between two friends who like each other and they spill the beans and talk about ideas. So yeah, chemistry is important.
[00:15:47] Speaker A: It is.
[00:15:47] Speaker B: And friendship is important.
[00:15:48] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:15:49] Speaker B: So.
[00:15:49] Speaker A: And trust in each.
[00:15:50] Speaker B: Trust. Yes, absolutely. That's the answer. That's a com. That's a common question that we get.
[00:15:56] Speaker A: Well, it's fun to hear from everybody too because it really is just a blast letting people telling us, did I.
[00:16:02] Speaker B: Talk about last week that I had a friend or not last week, the week before that. I know, I don't think I did that. A girl, a lady actually called me through messenger.
[00:16:10] Speaker A: Oh, did I already talk about that? No.
[00:16:12] Speaker B: The week before someone had called me on messenger. Okay. Yeah. And she didn't have my phone number, but I got a messenger ring and I was like, oh, well, that's interesting. And so I answered the phone call and. And you could tell she was a little. She wasn't hesitant, but you could kind of hear it in her voice a little bit. And. But I know her. And she was like, hey.
I was like, is everything okay? What's going on? And she was like, well, you know, I, I. Me personally, I just shared a repost of my dad, a history. It was him in the nursing home and I just kind of missing him and a reshare of him. She was like, you know, I just. I know you've got that podcast and about grief and I saw the post of your dad and I lost my mom like four months ago and I just thought I needed to talk to somebody like she.
[00:16:56] Speaker A: This.
[00:16:57] Speaker B: Well, you know, I've got that podcast about grief and things we talk about. So I'm happy to. She's like, well, that's. That's kind of. I thought you'd be a good person to call because she's like, I've not really shared. I'm like, I had no idea your mother passed away. And she's like, well, I've not Shared it.
And so she's kind of just holding all that in because she didn't feel comfortable putting that out there and didn't want to risk losing any business over it.
And, gosh. Which is really unfortunate.
[00:17:23] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:17:24] Speaker B: That we have to even worry about that.
So. But I was like, well, that's good. I'm glad to hear that the podcast has reached people with grief and understanding that. Man, we're all walking, especially at this age right now. So many of us are, but we. I know people that are, you know, have lost parents when they were 12 years old, that, my gosh, have walked in this for their whole lives. And I cannot even imagine.
[00:17:49] Speaker A: I've also found with people is that not everybody understands grief at your level.
[00:17:54] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:17:55] Speaker A: And we all agree differently and we all had different relationships with our mothers and our fathers. And so I don't know that people can, you know, ever understand what you're feeling from a grief standpoint because it's so different than probably they grieved or everybody else. But, man, still, having that person that lost somebody and having somebody to talk to about it is night and day on how you can recover from it because it's.
[00:18:19] Speaker B: Well. And I saw, again, I always talk about that mom's group. I thought it was interesting, though, because I saw a girl, she said she was a single mom and she was like, I need help. Does anybody on here specialize in depression cleaning? I was like, well, it was an interesting way to put it. And she said, I'm just overwhelmed. I've been going through depression. My house needs help. And we've talked about this.
[00:18:40] Speaker A: Oh, you have that? Yeah.
[00:18:41] Speaker B: And she was like, I have three kids and I just need help getting back on track. And it was so nice to see the amount of people who have cleaning companies who spoke up and they're like, listening. No judgment. I've been there.
You give us a call. And the amount of people who are willing to step up, and that's awesome.
So it's out there. But I like how she put that depression cleaning.
[00:19:06] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:19:07] Speaker B: Because there's so many people that just. You fall in that trap and you just can't get out.
[00:19:13] Speaker A: And I didn't know it was even a thing. I mean, until I went through it and we talked about it on here. We both went through it in there. It is a real.
[00:19:21] Speaker B: Well, that's what this girl was talking about, too, that called me and she's just like, I don't even recognize myself. And, yeah, it snowballs.
[00:19:29] Speaker A: We need to start your non profit because that's what. That's exactly.
[00:19:33] Speaker B: Exactly what I talked about. I was like, I would love one day to have something that you just like. People just know that you've walked it and you're there to help them, and.
[00:19:41] Speaker A: It'S not your fault.
[00:19:43] Speaker B: It really isn't.
[00:19:44] Speaker A: Oh, I love that.
[00:19:44] Speaker B: Anyways, I think that was pretty huge. So I don't care if we ever make a dime off of this. If we're just there to help people know they're not walking alone, then I think that's awesome.
[00:19:55] Speaker A: And grief is such a weird thing that you can't. You can't predict how you're going to feel through it. And it. Some days are so overwhelming.
So I think it's. I mean, I love that. That people are reaching out.
[00:20:07] Speaker B: Yeah. I thought that was a very nice and nice call to get, and it was nice to hear that.
[00:20:12] Speaker A: Well, speaking of that.
[00:20:13] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:20:14] Speaker A: But the whole thing of losing my mom, you know, I had that event at my house a couple weeks ago, and I got so many cards afterwards. Instead of me sending thank you cards, I was getting thank you cards, which I loved so much and was unexpected. But so many people said, you have such a way of connecting people, which I feel like I've always done pretty well. Why is this going to make me cry? I don't know. I've always loved that. I love connecting different groups of people, and I love inviting people from all over that you don't necessarily know. I got so many cards just saying you make people feel really special and you also connect us with really great people.
And I feel. I loved that I got all those. But afterwards I was like, I didn't get to talk to anybody because there was so many people. Crazy.
[00:21:00] Speaker B: Five minutes ago, I was sitting here looking at you, sitting here thinking about how good you are at connecting people. Swear, like, I was just watching you talk. And that was what was. I was sitting here thinking, oh, how funny.
[00:21:09] Speaker A: I love doing it. I. And I, you know, my friend circles all know each other because I. I've got, you know, different groups of people, but I bring them all together because I just.
There's something special about that. But I didn't get to connect with anybody. And I just feel like ever since my mom passed away that I. I'm just. My soul is longing for that. Shoot, I didn't want to cry.
Longing for that connection. So after I got one of the cards, I was like, man, I'm not the only one missing that connection. And I do think since COVID we Kind of all just got comfortable being by ourselves or not and kind of isolated.
[00:21:43] Speaker B: We have.
[00:21:45] Speaker A: And so I've started a new thing called A Seat at the Table. And I'm really excited about it, and I'm just. It's going to be four people, counting me. I'm having people over for dinner. It's a really simple dinner. It's not. I'm not a gourmet chef. I don't want to be a chef. I'm not trying to make this fancy meal, but it'll be good food. And it's just. I'm going to bring four people, three people together that don't know each other, and I'm literally putting in groups of bi. Personality, and I'm pulling out a name from each of the three, and then those are going to get invited and we're just going to have a. A nice meal. I just think it'll be fun. I'm having so much fun with it. And then I'm just, you know, researching, like, connection and how people do think about, like, when we're all young and any.
[00:22:26] Speaker B: Any enneagram. Enneagrams.
[00:22:27] Speaker A: No, I don't.
[00:22:28] Speaker B: I don't.
[00:22:29] Speaker A: Yeah, I don't understand it. I don't either. I've never really gotten friends.
[00:22:31] Speaker B: You're so good at it. I'm like, I don't understand it.
[00:22:33] Speaker A: I don't either. And I've not really ever gotten into it, but I just want it to be, you know, connecting with people. I just think you're awesome at that. Oh, I love it. I'm excited. And I. I've really been studying about, like, you know, connection over a dinner table. Families that have dinner together at night.
[00:22:49] Speaker B: Were you the one who connected me to Debbie a long time ago, yeah. Which her daughter? Was it to Debbie or to her daughter first?
[00:22:57] Speaker A: Her daughter. You met her. You met Debbie through my daughter and her son.
[00:23:01] Speaker B: And then look at the connection you made there for me. I mean, like, I have done quite a bit of real estate just through her family over the years. I mean, and I love their families. Love them.
[00:23:15] Speaker A: I love that she came, too, because I hadn't seen her seeing her. I haven't seen her in years. Like, I don't even know the last time.
[00:23:22] Speaker B: Love them.
[00:23:23] Speaker A: So that. That's what I love. So that's what this is going to be. It's called a seat at the table. And I'm just going to invite people and we're going to do it once a month. And I'm really excited. I think it's going to be really cool. And I think about, we know when we're young and we all have dinner at the dinner table, our parents, that's where they connect with their kids most.
[00:23:39] Speaker B: They did. Yeah.
[00:23:40] Speaker A: Sitting around the dinner table. And so that's kind of my whole concept.
[00:23:43] Speaker B: See what personality I fit into.
[00:23:45] Speaker A: Well, I've got you in.
[00:23:46] Speaker B: I'm a chameleon.
Okay. So thinking about. So not necessarily on grief, but dealing with it. This is a very important topic for a lot of people. Anybody needs to know this. So we've talked about this before.
The pay on death, the pod. Oh yeah, the bank. Okay. Anybody if you have kids, teenagers, anything, if they go open an account at the bank, checking account, saving account, go get a pod. You walk in and you say, hey, isn't my kids checking? Or my. Your kid has to do it, obviously. What your teenager, they're 18, 19, whatever they say they want a pod on their checking account. That means a pay on death to my parents or whoever. That means if God forbid, something happens to them, you walk in with your Social Security with your ID and your their death certificate and that account gets liquidated to you. Whoever that is listed on their own pay on death. Okay. Same goes for the grandparents. If they, whoever is on that account, that means it doesn't have to go through probate. It doesn't like that trumps everything, if I understand this correctly.
So look up state of Oklahoma pay on death. Okay, next. Now just recently for the state of Oklahoma In September of 2000, it's 23, not 2003. I messed up when I had typed that out. Just recently. So September 2023, a new law was passed regarding title being a transfer on death for the car titles. You can also, if your car is paid in full, you can have your car titles transferred on death to somebody in your family or friend, whoever that is. That means it doesn't have to go through, through probate, it doesn't have to go through any of that. So you just have to go register that on a form. It's Oklahoma tax commissions form 771. And you can just download it. Just go to Google and look up the transfer on death notice using Oklahoma tax Commission Form 771 and it'll download the form for you. Get it, follow the instructions, take it to the tag agency, take care of it. Like it is something everyone just needs to do. Like yesterday. Like do not wait and it will. They call it like a poor man's will. And let me tell you, it is the easiest Best thing that you could do to save yourself a lot of problems in the future.
[00:25:56] Speaker A: That's a great idea.
[00:25:57] Speaker B: And it costs no money. It's free to do it.
[00:26:00] Speaker A: Well, you know, we talked about my whole sleep score. I wanted to talk about the thing that I did on my phone. I've done a lot of things. Obviously, the Peptides I think is working, but I've also added red lights in my bedroom. I've added amber lights. But you can actually switch your iPhone. I don't know about Androids. You can switch your iPhone so that it's. I have mine. Sundown to sunset. It switches over to an amber light. So instead of blue light, your phone's is amber lit. And I think that's made a difference too. So you just do it in the settings and you can set a timer of when you want it to switch over. So it's no longer the blue light on your phone. So as you're scrolling at night, it's amber.
[00:26:37] Speaker B: Okay. I need to. I did get a blue light screen protector on my phone.
[00:26:40] Speaker A: You need blue light during the day for your circadian rhythm. You need blue light during the day, but you need it at night. You need to switch to amber. So that's the only bad thing with blue light blockers. They block it during the day, and your. Your body needs the blue light.
[00:26:54] Speaker B: Well, I don't need the blue light off my phone, though.
[00:26:56] Speaker A: Huh?
[00:26:56] Speaker B: I don't need the blue light off my phone, though.
[00:26:59] Speaker A: Not with your blue light blocker, no.
[00:27:01] Speaker B: So it's okay if I'm blocking my blue light off my phone screen?
[00:27:04] Speaker A: Yeah. You're getting light from outside and.
[00:27:06] Speaker B: Yeah. So it's okay if I'm blocking it 100 of the time. Yeah, I would say.
[00:27:10] Speaker A: Yeah. I noticed I was wearing blue light glasses during the day.
[00:27:13] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. Now that would not be good.
[00:27:15] Speaker A: You can't do. Yeah, you need to take those off.
[00:27:17] Speaker B: As far as this goes, I would say I'm good. Go to block it all the time. Caveman got by without that, I don't need my iPhone. Blue light.
[00:27:27] Speaker A: Wow. The caveman.
[00:27:29] Speaker B: She pulled out the caveman.
[00:27:31] Speaker A: We went back in time.
I have to talk about really quick. A game I played. It's so funny. I'm gonna play it at my house too, with my seat at the table, but it's called slip it in.
[00:27:44] Speaker B: Wow.
[00:27:44] Speaker A: There was a wow.
That was like a really wow.
You get five cards when you arrive, and they have sayings on them. One word. They have different things on them. And then you have to Slip that in conversation throughout the night without getting caught that you slipped in this. Whatever's on your card. So you have five you have to do throughout the night after you say whatever it is on your card. An example, I bet I could beat you at arm wrestling. And you have to slip that in the conversation throughout the evening.
[00:28:13] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:28:14] Speaker A: Or one was, I just used a new shampoo. Smell my hair.
[00:28:19] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:28:19] Speaker A: And then if you say it and no one figures out that that was a slip in, then you. After you have to wait 30 seconds, you have to count yourself, and then you go, I just slipped it in.
[00:28:28] Speaker B: As many random things as I say, no one would know anything.
[00:28:32] Speaker A: It's actually a ton of fun.
It helps with conversation because you're having to get your five things in. Some of them was like dill pickle. That was the word. So you got to figure out how to get dill pickle into a conversation at some point to the night. And then if somebody catches you and go, you just slipped it in. Then you.
[00:28:52] Speaker B: I would win.
[00:28:53] Speaker A: They lose a point. And you have to get a new card. So now you have to get another thing to talk about. So you have to go through all five cards. Where is this game so much fun.
[00:29:01] Speaker B: You just get it.
[00:29:02] Speaker A: Yeah. You just buy it on Amazon.
[00:29:03] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:29:04] Speaker A: It's funny. And there's probably, I don't know, a thousand cards that come with it. So there's a million different things.
[00:29:10] Speaker B: Like an ongoing all night game.
[00:29:12] Speaker A: Yeah. Just. It's one of. One of those things that you're. But it also helps conversation flow because you're having to slip it in. So you're trying to. You're talking about all sorts of things. But it's really fun. So.
[00:29:22] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:29:23] Speaker A: We had a blast.
[00:29:24] Speaker B: Okay. Perfect. Yes. I'm. Okay. I'm getting that. That's going on my Amazon list right now.
[00:29:29] Speaker A: Funny. It's a fun game.
[00:29:30] Speaker B: Do you keep wish lists on your Amazon?
[00:29:32] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. My list is so long, so.
[00:29:35] Speaker B: But I mean, I have it categorized like it is insane.
[00:29:39] Speaker A: It's pretty bad.
[00:29:40] Speaker B: I. I really need to just send it to Steven so he makes shopping much easier. Like for him for Christmas or whatever. Really just need to give him that. So.
[00:29:48] Speaker A: Well, I. What I love about it is that they then, you know, remind you often that there are things on that list that are on sale.
[00:29:56] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:29:56] Speaker A: So you can run back and get it at a discount.
[00:29:59] Speaker B: Slip it in. Game 19.99. It's really like, we're going over.
[00:30:03] Speaker A: We are.
[00:30:03] Speaker B: Time.
[00:30:04] Speaker A: It's because we missed it so I. I just let us keep talking. But, yeah, we're trying to keep these to 30 minutes so they don't get boring. And now we're rambling. So.
[00:30:12] Speaker B: Okay, we're going to cut it off. Bye. But we'll see you next week. See ya.
